{"id":660,"date":"2020-07-10T14:58:06","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T14:58:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.brav.org\/?p=660"},"modified":"2020-07-10T14:58:09","modified_gmt":"2020-07-10T14:58:09","slug":"getting-bullies-to-respond-civilly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brav.org\/?p=660","title":{"rendered":"Getting Bullies to Respond Civilly"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><br>How do you respond to a belligerent attacker? You can ignore, avoid, &#8220;kill<br>with kindness,&#8221; assert yourself, confront or grow violent. Missing any?<br>Often times bullies aren&#8217;t<br>interested in acting civil; they want to win, they want submission, and they<br>want &#8211; power. A small minority are looking to be put in their place, but<br>overall, bullies aren&#8217;t interested in anything but dominance. So what else<br>can be done?<br>Some bullies need to learn from another and gain another perspective on a<br>situation. Using virtual and interactive games like Grand Theft Auto is fun<br>as players can place themselves in a situation that they could never do in<br>real life. Similarly, when users engage in our Br\u0101v challenges, everyone can<br>place themselves in the position of another whom they could not have<br>understood without this.<br>We think that these games in conjunction with speaking to those we have<br>disagreements with through our face to face chat platform (or avatar with<br>facial expressions or using our instant messaging platform) would be the<br>best way for bullies to finally understand the position they place others in.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How do you respond to a belligerent attacker? You can ignore, avoid, &#8220;killwith kindness,&#8221; assert yourself, confront or grow violent. Missing any?Often times bullies aren&#8217;tinterested in acting civil; they want to win, they want submission, and theywant &#8211; power. A small minority are looking to be put in their place, butoverall, bullies aren&#8217;t interested in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/660"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=660"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/660\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":661,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/660\/revisions\/661"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=660"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=660"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=660"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}