{"id":671,"date":"2020-07-10T15:04:43","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T15:04:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.brav.org\/?p=671"},"modified":"2020-07-10T15:04:47","modified_gmt":"2020-07-10T15:04:47","slug":"a-better-way-to-handle-negative-memories","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brav.org\/?p=671","title":{"rendered":"A Better Way to Handle Negative Memories"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><br>How often in your head do you replay traumatic times\u2026humiliating<br>horrors\u2026or painful pasts?<br>If you&#8217;re like me\u2026and many others, it&#8217;s pretty often. Psychologists have<br>argued in favor of a variety of theories to best deal with past emotions. This<br>includes everything from getting lobotomies to physically remove parts of<br>the brain to remove bad memories, to utilizing the avoidant theory, which is<br>each time a negative memory occurs, simply stop thinking about it. Hard,<br>huh?<br>A new way to deal has been suggested by researchers at the Beckman<br>Institute at the University of Illinois, led by psychology professor Florin<br>Dolcos of the Cognitive Neuroscience Group. Their studies claim that once a<br>negative memory enters your mind, recall the event holistically, which<br>allows us to remember not only the bad, but the positives that occurred too.<br>For example, hurt after being called out at work for poor performance? Did<br>your coworkers comfort you or did you rehash to your friends and were you<br>then reminded of your accomplishments? Did you end up working harder<br>to prove them wrong and triumph? Were you able to at least go home and<br>enjoy a nice bath\u2026or a really good meal\u2026or dessert?<br>Recalling some positives surrounding our bad memories allows us to gain a<br>more well rounded perspective on the matter.<br>Making us able to handle a bad thought a little bit better. Think about it.<br>More on the study:<br>scan.oxfordjournals.org\/content\/early\/2014\/03\/05\/scan.nsu039.abstract<br>&#8220;New study suggests a better way to deal with bad memories.&#8221; April 18th,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2014\"><li>http:\/\/medicalxpress.com\/news\/2014-04-bad-memories.html<\/li><\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How often in your head do you replay traumatic times\u2026humiliatinghorrors\u2026or painful pasts?If you&#8217;re like me\u2026and many others, it&#8217;s pretty often. Psychologists haveargued in favor of a variety of theories to best deal with past emotions. Thisincludes everything from getting lobotomies to physically remove parts ofthe brain to remove bad memories, to utilizing the avoidant theory, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/671"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=671"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/671\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":672,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/671\/revisions\/672"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=671"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=671"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=671"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}