{"id":702,"date":"2020-07-10T15:17:45","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T15:17:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.brav.org\/?p=702"},"modified":"2020-07-10T15:17:48","modified_gmt":"2020-07-10T15:17:48","slug":"what-can-we-learn-from-afroman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brav.org\/?p=702","title":{"rendered":"What Can We Learn from Afroman?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><br>Afroman, well known for his 2001 hit, succeeded in his mission to make a<br>comeback\u2026but not necessarily for his music as he had hoped. If you haven&#8217;t<br>seen the .30 second video of Afroman slapping a fan (but nonetheless stage<br>trespasser), watch it now . The most disturbing aspect of the Afroman<br>incident was arguably not the blow to the concert goer&#8217;s face, but rather the<br>musician&#8217;s seeming lack of concern right after, immediately returning back<br>to playing his guitar, not missing a beat.<br>Some believe this cavalier attitude (only reinforced by his tweet later on<br>that states, &#8220;it is what it is&#8221;) could suggest that he&#8217;s reacted similarly before.<br>But what causes this acting out? There are many reasons that this might<br>occur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol><li>Learning that violent coping skills are acceptable from a trusted<br>individual, such as an abusive parent or close friend, and therefore<br>not learning more effective ways to handle pent up emotion or not<br>learning the value of self control.<\/li><li>An attitude that their target is out to get them\/ inferior to them\/a<br>nuisance, and the most immediate way to deal with them is through<br>intimidation and violence. (He failed to react the same way when the<br>male concert goer walked on stage too, but that may also be due to<br>remaining in shock from the first trespasser.)<\/li><li>A loss of control. For example, in his apology, Afroman cites his quest<br>to make a career comeback. Thus, despite not receiving consent, the<br>target walks on and dances on stage and attempts to dance on him,<br>may have sent him into a rage because it took the focus off his talent<br>and disrupted his focus.<\/li><li>Not having an outlet for his emotions, and learning that anything<br>short of aggression is weakness &#8211; particularly because it works. Many<br>support the idea that Afroman was sexually assaulted on stage and<br>some say that warrants self-defense. It is important to note that<br>self-defense requires necessary and proportionate force to that of the<br>initial aggressor.<\/li><li>The anger may not even have anything to do with the concertgoer.<br>Perhaps Afroman keeps anger inside, which manifests at arbitrary<br>triggers.<br>What do you think?<\/li><\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Afroman, well known for his 2001 hit, succeeded in his mission to make acomeback\u2026but not necessarily for his music as he had hoped. If you haven&#8217;tseen the .30 second video of Afroman slapping a fan (but nonetheless stagetrespasser), watch it now . The most disturbing aspect of the Afromanincident was arguably not the blow to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/702"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=702"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/702\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":703,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/702\/revisions\/703"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=702"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=702"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brav.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=702"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}